I have just made myself the nastiest bowl of pasta
and that has set me thinking
actually, its not that..but something that someone wrote...and i read...
and it made me wonder...
this person decided that best thing for a relationship would be to not have one..
and some of the stuff said, somewhat struck a cord
and made me worry about myself

firstly, why do i not think abt the future
when i am in a relationship..i do not think ...where is this going...whats our future going to be together..
enough ranting
the effect of the pasta has worn away

i dont see the point of those questions...relationships dont 'go' anywhere..
and how do you know what your future is going to be..
how does anyone knw
so .. why waste time thinking abt it...
the thing is....if it doesnt work out..
then the world doesnt end and neither do you
you move on, pick up the pieces and meet new people
if not, you dont and you live with many cats...
well.....im too young to philosophise....and where a relationship goes...
well i dont think much into it.

Recently, I was having a chat about asian families and values
and we stumbled upon the topic of settling....
and i said..that i never would....that i wouldnt give up my life and sit at home waiting...
my friend told me not to judge people who do that....
but i was thinking....does it make me a bad person...or someone who doesnt care..just because i see what i do as important...well i wonder...

and some of my friends are already married...and some of my friends friends are engaged to be married....and thing that set me thinking also mentions the idea....
and all that i wonder is..why do people even think abt things like that...
there is so much responsibility..which isnt easy....