Spent part of my day with aditi..she is such a darling...
and we both decided that since going away..we have become
1) Less scared of pple....now talking to randoms is really not a big deal..it used to be..
2) Less interested in what pple say abt us...since i dont see u ever...i dont see why i should waste my time on you
3) More confident as a result
4) Less judgemental than we used to be
5) Needing pple less...in the past..at least in JC..it was a calamity if there was no one to do things with..being alone was likened to being a pariah...
well now..i enjoy my lone time..and not needing pple to make things happen...freedom is a nice thing at times...and its nice not to need pple to make things happen..i can sort myself out and take care of myself perfectly now....
6) We have discovered our inner bitches...i know i have..since i dont feel the need to like everyone anymore...i still try..but i dont see it as a need....so...being mean..is easier now..:-)not sure if thats something to be proud of...that doesnt mean that i am mean to pple..more that i dont self censor anymore...